How I Effortlessly Let Go A Situation-ship

I understand people don’t want to be tricked into reading something boring; they want to be drawn into something exciting. I promise it will be worth it.

I have always wondered, how when two people break up from a relationship, they move on to another relationship and then the next time they break up they go back to their ex, strange right?

In our community with the Arabic say the reply you get is, “The water will always come back to its runway”. But hey! Water is water, and human beings are human, I don’t see why someone will use that as an excuse to explain how two people who broke up and moved on to another relationship will come back to each other.

Because to me that’s like going back to look at your sh*t.

Perhaps, I will look at at few definitions of relationship before I critique some situations which am sure  that could only be best described as Situation-ship instead of relationship.

Relationship can be defined as a romantic or sexual friendship between two people,-Merriam Webster

It’s always a beautiful feeling  when you know you are in love and you are loved right back, isn’t it? The joy that comes with that feeling is always indescribably breath taking, specially when the relationship is full of love, humor, adventure, sacrifices, mistakes and corrections that both of you feel that its just exactly what the two of you feel like doing.

That moment, when you decide enough is enough in the distance between the two of you love birds, you beat all the notions and decide to go overseas just to be with that one person who the heart beat for, 12 hours  flight but you’re patient  knowing at the end of this journey, that angel who made you take the risk of flying will be right there for your reception with arms wide open, and that is the ultimate ending you look forward to.

Although having all these lovely moments sometimes when you start feeling this very person have changed all of a sudden you start to think critically and analyze, as much as it was said by Seneca (Roman Philosopher) “He who, decides a case without hearing the other side, though s/he decides justly cannot be considered just” I don’t regret deciding.

I went back in my mind to know, did I really take my time to really understand what happened to his previous relationship? Why did they break up? and why did he decide to move on with me?  The most important things is not to stop asking questions -Albert Einstein

After all the fun, all of sudden you start to feel the stagnation  Knapps stages of relationship development  in the relationship because you are far again from each other, and the bond that was created of  coming together is now coming apart, and when your heart is filled with insecurity, you start to ask a lot of questions, when you don’t  certainly do not get the answers convincingly like he use to give, everything starts to fall apart and that’s when you realize that you were just in a situation-ship instead of relationship, but I live to remember that every situation has good memories, the ones that were not good; were lessons learned which one of them is how I effortlessly let go this fun situation instead of real love and affection.